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yourbigsisnissi:

if you’re afraid to have difficult conversations in your relationship

your relationship is not as good or as strong as you think it is

talk about boundaries, talk about hurt feelings, talk about disappointments, talk about things that need to change

not when you’re angry, not as a tool to hurt the other person in an argument

have the difficult conversations

with respect, with intention, and with purpose

or don’t

but if you choose not to

know that your choosing to allow your relationship to be superficial or move forward aimlessly

know that you’re choosing to waste your time

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moonemojii:

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amargedom:

“It is easy to love people in memory; the hard thing is to love them when they are there in front of you.”

— John Updike, My Father’s Tears and Other Stories
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eronthebender:

reenuka:

reenuka:

pussysoupforthesoul:

ladyshinga:

I used to think the idea of aliens having human zoos was horrifying but honestly if a bunch of aliens want to watch me sit and watch Netflix all day in a cozy little environment where I don’t have to pay for rent or food and they have human-specialist doctors on hand as needed, IDK, like. I’d be all right with it.

white ppl: lol human zoos?? what a crazy made up concept! sounds fun! sign me up! lmao

black ppl:

Africans:

Asians:

Native Americans:

Native Australians / Aboriginals:

Human zoos delighted white westerners in Europe and America as recently as 1958.

Correction: as recent as 2018.

I don’t know who said it goes but pretty much someone said that the reason a lot of shit in “Sci-Fi” is terrifying to white people is because it’s taking all the evil shit they’ve done to People of Color and show it happening to White people as well they just jazz it up to make it futuristic/alien.

Forced sterilization/Governmental control over Births, Eugenics, human zoos, extermination of humanity, chattel slavery, human breeders, poisoned evironments/foods, indoctrination, etc.

We all can think of at least on form of Sci-Fi media where that happens and if you google any of those with mention Sci-Fi you’ll get straight up examples of these happening to PoC in real life.

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therealpurposeoflife:

hassan-ibn-abdul-qadir:

content-mindset:

This is so so so pure 😭

This is our father Mohammad Bzeek, may Allaah honour and him and grant him from the highest of ranks in Jannah.

What an example of a man, truly heart warming and unbelievable that such loving people still exist in these times.

Please just watch this and remember him in your adiyaah every single day from now if possible ☹️❤️

Ameen

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islamicrays:

““You have everything that you need. You have Allah who’s kind yet you’re so poor because you’re not finding Him.””

— Shaykh Dr. Muhammad bin Yahya al-Husayni al-Ninowy الشيخ د. محمد النينوي

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levv17:

DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO UNTIL YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.

Oprah Winfrey

mjalti:

“The difference between comfort and nurture is this: if you have a plant that is sick because you keep it in a dark closet, and you say soothing words to it, that is comfort.If you take out of the closet and put in the sun, give it something to drink, and then talk to it, that is nurture” 

Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

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